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Love is something that makes you happy. If you gain more pain than happiness then it is not love. Sometimes we confuse love with pain. No, love is something that soothes us from all the hurt the world is throwing us. Sometimes happiness is found in losing things instead of having them.
I can't tell you what to do. All I can do is to tell you what true love is. You were with him for 5 years. And those five years you were the one who keeps on bending and breaking to keep things going with you and your husband. Would you consider that as love?
Love is not a waiting game. Love don't let you guess everyday. Love is not fighting too hard with someone; love is not obsessing when he will come back or is he seeing other girls; love is not waiting for someone to change according to your expectations.
Love isn't always happy. There will always come a time where you have to sacrifice, where you have to take all the hardships but then realizing that this person you are with is someone you love. That realization even though you are facing something tough always gives you a smile because all through life's challenges you have someone you love at your side.
Sometimes love is letting go.
Love is a very brave act..of letting go. It is when you realize that both of you grow apart instead of together; it is when you see that both of you are stuck in painful situation; it is when you realize that staying by his side made you settle to something less than you deserve; it is when you feel the pain everyday you wake up; it is when you realize that trying and staying isn't always the best choice; it is when you figured out that letting go doesn't mean you love him a little less, it only means you love him very much you want the both of you to go separate ways to improve yourselves.
Love is being able to stand where it is best for the two of you. Letting go doesn't mean you stop loving; it only means that you love that person more than you care about the fallen relationship.
Love and happiness. It isn't something you tie in yourself when you get a hold of it. It is something you fly together with. If it didn't work out fine, it's okay. Love is love. But forcing things to the ways you expected it to be even it hurts is not love; it is greed.
Sometimes it is easy to settle and forget the kind of love that you deserve. But something that is easy isn't worth living for. Love and be loved in return. God prepared somebody for everybody, so if it doesn't feel right yet then that somebody for you is waiting at the end of the road so never waste your time on someone who doesn't deserve you. Let him go, and let yourself be with somebody that is right for you.
