What makes us human?
DESIRE.
One common thing that we all desire, is to be included. We hunger for acceptance because we are afraid to be alone. Loneliness is a feeling of emptiness inside of us. It makes us feel isolated and separated from everyone and everything.
The feeling of inclusion makes it all better. It gives us the illusion of being happy and forgetting we were lonely. We must know loneliness does not only mean you are physically alone, you may be part of a group but still feel lonely.
The feeling of inclusion makes it all better. It gives us the illusion of being happy and forgetting we were lonely. We must know loneliness does not only mean you are physically alone, you may be part of a group but still feel lonely.
"We can't please everyone."
We've all heard it yet we still try. We always try hard enough because we feel we needed to do more to be more. We let ourselves be trapped and be deceived with a lie we made up: rejection is to alone as alone is to fatal.
With everything we do, we give our best not because we are passionate about it but because we want to obtain acceptance by our performance, followed by a fear of failure each time we try.
It is entirely wrong. Don't let yourself be deceived from the lies you made up in your head. Acceptance from others would only make us feel worst. If accepted, you will crave for more acceptance, if rejected you will feel more alone. The only acceptance that we need is the acceptance from our God and ourselves.
"We must trust God's Word more than ours."
Putting our trust to God and letting Him work His magic unto us. He will give us the right people that will accept and love us for the right reasons in the right time. We don't have to seek approval from others as they don't need to seek approval from us too.
We need to forget what other people think of us and focus on what we could offer them without expecting their approval or gain anything in return. We must learn to love ourselves because if we don't, we will always feel rejected by our own insecurities not by other people.
"Mind over body."
But to me, faith over human. Not everything we know is the truth. And not everything we feel is right. After all we are only human.
